My moma says I can argue with a brick wall....

I honestly don't know the most effective way to argue. If you are just arguing to argue then you probably wont accomplish very much at all! Probably the best way to argue would be listen to the other person and not just pop off at the mouth and think about what your going to say. When you say it be rational and be an adult about it. Screaming and cussing doesn't get you anywhere. I know my biggest problem is that I ALWAYS have to have the last word. It never fails ad every time I do, the argument just escalates and becomes even worse. I know whats going to happen but I just cant control myself! If you are rational about it then the problem will be resolved quicker and way better than it would if you just jumped off and started yelling and screaming. Most people don't know how to be rational because there are so mad to being with confrontation doesn't help. If you are arguing for a good reason then you could accomplish something in the sorts of recognition or someone in a higher position will see what your arguing about ( maybe animals ) and make happen what your arguing about. On the other hand if you are just arguing for all the wrong reason's it wont accomplish anything in my opinion.